The Gateway to a New Me
Taking the time to make changes is as important as making the decision that it’s time to make a change.
When we want a new outcome in our lives, sometimes we are in a hurry, and we want it right now!
Allowing ourselves the time to change, to grow, to create the new outcome we desire takes the pressure off and gives us the opportunity to research, explore, adjust and eventually be ready for the change we want to experience.
With clients who want to use the life coaching sessions to create a loving relationship in their lives, although they want it to happen really fast, I always suggest we put a spacious time-scale into place… I find that 12 – 18 months works well for most people.
When there’s no rush, no urgency, they can take their time, they can explore various avenues, they can open new doors and enjoy the process as well as the new people they meet and experiences they have on the way.
I love seeing how this works again and again, how my clients move from their initial space of wanting a relationship to being in a relationship and sometimes, the best news of all, they write to me a while later to tell me their engaged and getting married!
All the best,
Posted in Change, Life Coaching, Relationships, Self Development on August 25, 2011
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