A Little Love Life Coaching For Women Over 40

In your 40s? Looking for some love and dating advice? Then this post is written just for you as here we are going to share with you some top tips and advice on how to find great dates and luscious love despite the media constantly telling women in their 40s they are past their best. In reality the fun is just beginning and here you can find some great tips to perhaps help you discover the man of your dreams!

Number 1:
Go Out As Much As You Can – Do not hibernate. If you are serious about getting a date; rule of thumb is to go out as much as you can and therefore meet new friends in the process. Why not get together with your old friends and ask them if they can introduce some of their good bachelor friends to you. By focusing on getting out and meeting new men, you are actually enabling yourself to become more marketable to men your age. For this, you will need to deviate from your usual routines and make time to finding dates for the coming weeks. This doesn’t have to be anything challenging right now, maybe start by drinking coffee somewhere different every day!

Number 2:
Ditch the emotional baggage – I think most people know that emotional baggage can be difficult for a new partner to take on board, particularly during the ‘dating’ stage. So during the early stages of a relationship or whilst you are meeting new people, ditch the baggage. Not only can this help you to meet new people but it can also be a great stress relief for you personally. Think of this as a new and fresh start. Oh and yes ditching the emotional baggage means not talking about any ex relationships you have had in previous years. Instead move on to new and exciting ground!

Number 3:
Be Natural – To find someone that truly loves you, you firstly have to respect and believe in who you are. This is to ensure you are completely natural and totally yourself on your date, as pretending to be someone else is as effective as hiring an actor to go on a date for you! Of course you absolutely want to meet someone who likes you for who you are. So you have to be yourself right from the beginning otherwise there’s no point going on any date in the first place.

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Posted in happiness on September 11, 2011

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