Ending Your Relationship
How do you do it? What’s the best way nowadays?
I hear that some people text or email each other to say “it’s over”.
Maybe it’s my generation but somehow I can’t quite imagine going about it that way, neither being on the receiving end of that or doing that myself.
As difficult as it may seem, if it’s possible to avoid an argument and maintain some level of civility, I believe that speaking to someone face to face, laying the cards on the table, is the best way.
My only tip is: avoid blaming the other person for anything if you want to avoid conflict and arguments. What’s the point at this point in hurting or insulting someone? It won’t get either of you anywhere, and to end things on a negative note is not helpful to either of you.
Both of you want to move on, to meet someone right for you, to start a new relationship, so if you can wish each other the best in your lives, and part with a hug and a smile, that would definitely be best.
That’s what I would do!
Female? 40-something? Read this client’s compelling story: Being Vulnerable
All the best,
Posted in Life Coaching, Self Confidence, Self Improvement on April 15, 2011
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